The LDS Church doesn't need anyone to be cruel. The recommend interview, the ministering grid, and the love bombing cycle do the work — and they were built to.
Jess and Hannah break down three structural practices built into LDS institutional life: temple recommend gatekeeping (and what the tithing declaration actually does inside that interview), passive shunning through record removal and ministering reassignment, and love bombing as a retention tool that uses real warmth to close real distance. They also name — and forward — the LGBTQ conditional belonging episode, because that architecture is categorically distinct and needs its own space. If you've ever tried to explain to someone why leaving felt like losing everything, not just your faith, this is the framework you've been looking for. The harm doesn't need cruelty. It was designed in.
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